Madonna as gay icon

Madonna is considered a gay icon and the gay community has embraced her as a pop culture icon. After the launch of Madonna's music career and her entry into public consciousness, she began to solidify her reputation as a gay icon.

Life as a LGBT icon
Madonna was introduced to the gay community while still a teenager. It was her ballet teacher, Christopher Flynn, a gay man, who first told Madonna that she was beautiful. He also introduced her to the local gay community of Detroit, Michigan, often taking her to local gay bars. Flynn also encouraged Madonna to walk away from her full scholarship to the University of Michigan and move to Manhattan to pursue a career as a professional dancer. Upon her arrival, some of the first people she befriended were drag queens and gay rentboys.

After the launch of her music career and her entry into public consciousness, Madonna began to solidify her reputation as a gay icon. In the 1980s, Madonna was one of the first major celebrities to lend her support to AIDS causes. Many of her friends and inspirations, such as her ballet teacher Christopher Flynn, choreographer Alvin Ailey, artist Keith Haring, and photographer Herb Ritts -- as well as her brother Christopher -- are gay males, and some of them have died of AIDS. The song "In This Life" from her fifth studio album, Erotica, is about the loss of Madonna's (gay) friends to AIDS, containing the lines, "Have you ever watched your best friend die?" and "It shouldn't matter who you choose to love".

One of Madonna's biggest hits, 1990's "Vogue", is a song in tribute to the underground dance form known as vogueing which first found popularity in gay bars and discos of New York City.

In the same album, Deeper and Deeper deals with a homosexual coming in terms with his/her homosexuality after falling in Love. The 11th track of the album Why is it so hard? protests freedom of loving anyone we choose and to challenge the system. The song also contains the line "Why can't we learn to accept that we're different before it's too late"

In the book Sex, which Madonna herself has called semi-autobiographical, there are a lot of pictures and stories that present Madonna with other women enjoying themselves naked. In the video of Erotica you can spot Madonna naked with many women (including famous model Naomi Capbell). There are also a lot of pictures that show male gays. During the so called Erotica period and other periods of her career Madonna commented on homosexuality. When she was asked in 2008 if she wants to be a gay icon she said that she hopes that she still is. She has also said that she loves having gay male friends because they are not afraid of strong women.

In the album Bedtime Storiesthere is a song called Forbidden Love. Although it has never been confirmed, the song might be about a homosexual relationship. The same stands for a song in Madonna's 2005 Confessions on a dance floor album with the same name. In the first Madonna proclaims that she doesn't care if it's not right what she's doing and that she wishes love was always so good. In the latter, she asks if they (the couple) is really meant to be together.

In 2003 Madonna kissed Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera onstage at the MTV Video Music Awards. According to Out "I kind of assume everything I do is going to appeal to the gay audience. I'm just a big queen...it just means I kissed Britney Spears. I am the mommy pop star and she is the baby pop star. And I am kissing her and passing my energy onto her. Like, kind of a mythological fairy tale", Madonna stated of the incident.

Madonna has been named by The Advocate as "the biggest gay icon of all time" over Judy Garland. To this day, Madonna's gay following is one of the most loyal segments of her audience. While her popularity among certain other communities has fluctuated over the years, her gay following seems to stay strongly intact. Madonna credits her maintaining as a pop culture icon to the gay community.

On the eve of the release of Madonna's album Confessions on a Dance Floor, Steve Gdula of The Advocate wrote:

"In the beginning, back in the 1980s and even the early 1990s, the release of a new Madonna video or single was akin to a national holiday, at least among her gay fans. The devotion, the urgency, and the fervor with which we rushed to buy her music, set the VCRs to record her every appearance, and raced to the newsstand to pour over the Vogue and Vanity Fair spreads became nearly ritualistic. Whether documented by Herb Ritts or Steven Meisel, we anticipated each new incarnation of our Madonna like pilgrims waiting for a vision.... Madonna’s dance tracks offered a necessary escape that was nearly transcendental during an era when our community was seeing more than its share of heartbreak and horror.... Off the dance floor, she was just as supportive, becoming an outspoken AIDS activist and promoting education and compassion over ignorance and intolerance. At a time when other artists tried to distance themselves from the very audience that helped their stars to rise, Madonna only turned the light back on her gay fans and made it burn all the brighter."

At a certain moment of her Confessions Tour, Madonna brought two shirtless male dancers on stage, one with a Jewish symbol painted in his chest and the other with a Muslim symbol also painted in his chest, and they perform contact-improvisational choreography together. The singer then asks for peace in the Middle East. This irritated both Jews and Muslims (considering the fact that homosexuality is still a taboo in most of the Middle Eastern Muslim nations).

In 2008, while in Paris during Hard Candy Promo Tour, she kissed one of her female dancers and yelled out to the crowd: ""I'm always drawn to working with French people - and frenching French people". During all the Sticky & Sweet Tour, she kissed one of the girls impersonating her while she sings "She's Not Me".

Also in 2008, during her Sticky & Sweet Tour, Madonna has made several statements regarding Proposition 8, stating that if America can accept a black president (Barack Obama), it's ready to accept gay marriage.

Madonna's brother Christopher Ciccone is gay and, although they were once close, they no longer speak as a result of his revealing biography Life with My Sister Madonna.

Pop star Boy George has been extremely critical of Madonna in recent years, claiming that the Kabbalah faith which she follows is homophobic. Madonna has responded to that saying that half the people she knows that are Kabbalists are gay. Still today she continues to be supportive of gay rights.